A Couples Immersion is a more powerful and unique therapeutic approach for couples therapy than traditional hourly sessions. Immersions are private extended therapy sessions which take place over three consecutive days, six hours a day and are generally hosted in your home or hotel suite if traveling from out of town. If you're looking for more immediate and powerful results, this is a good choice. In the 3-day Couples Immersion, you will be progressively guided to uncover the roots of disconnection and challenged to stretch into the kind of vulnerability that rebuilds foundational trust. You’ll be supported to re-architect your relationship into one that is soundly based on the essential principles of healthy thriving, passionate intimacy.
"Our relationship was on very rocky ground even on the first day. By the second day I was not only hopeful but excited about our future." - T.R.
Work privately with Trevor Warren, seasoned relationship & sexual intimacy therapist, who has been offering Couples Immersions since 2009.
$3,400 for 18-hours over three days
Work conjointly with Jenna Card & Trevor Warren, an inspiring therapist team who powerfully embody and model a healthy and passionate intimate partnership. Working two-on-two, you will benefit from their unique perspectives as you heal disconnection and move toward your ideal thriving intimate partnership.
$4,700 for 18-hours over three days
For many couples, the conjoint therapy approach offers an attractive alternative to traditional couples counselling. Jenna & Trevor meet with couples two-on-two, working dynamically together to add a deeper dimension of therapy not available with solo or unpartnered co‐therapists. This deeply connected couple have earned their stripes. They’ve navigated through complex issues and topics in their own partnership and “walk their talk”. Their complementary styles clearly represent the different gendered perspectives and they model, in real-time, the dimensions of whole-hearted, conscious partnership with their clients.
Whether you’ve been together 2 years or 25 years, you know relationships can be hard and, they can be amazing. The slow, silent erosion of your connection can have you feeling distant, isolated or estranged from your partner with whom you’ve envisioned a beautiful life. Maybe the breakdown of communication and resulting disconnection has become so entrenched you don’t remember what it was like to ‘be on the same team’. Maybe affection and sexual intimacy feel strained or distant. Or maybe the stalemate of ongoing conflict seem irresolvable. And possibly, you’ve even become so disconnected that one of you is seeking sexual or emotional fulfillment elsewhere. The bottom line is this is not the relationship you’ve dreamt of and you cannot continue this way.
You are ready for more! More emotional safety, more understanding, more honesty, more trust, more harmony, more affection, more intimacy, more SEX! Ultimately, you desire a deeper, loving connection with your partner. You’d love to tackle life’s challenges as a team and truly see and value what each of you brings to your partnership. You want to be filled with gratitude for how far you’ve come and what you’ve created together in intimate relationship, family, work and life. You yearn to be so deeply connected as to support the dream of each of you living your life’s fullest passions, together.
We invest tens of thousands of dollars in businesses, university degrees, exotic vacations, and renovating our homes. We engage experts and we learn new skills. Now it’s time to invest, engage and learn for the enrichment of your most precious intimate relationship!
While weekly therapy sessions can be effective for some couples, our professional experience over the last twenty years has taught us that in order for most couples to authentically and sustainably shift out of their rigid negative painful patterns, they simply need more than a session every week or two. Our old habits have way more traction than our new intentions. Couples Immersions offers the depth and focus to support dislodging those old dysfunctional patterns and integrate new ones. This is a very unique and therapeutically advanced approach to relationship counselling that has evolved out of more than 2 decades of direct couple’s counselling and workshop facilitation experience. The Couples Counselling Immersions are specifically designed to help break through these stubborn patterns and help you integrate new effective habits of healthy, thriving relationships.
Couples Immersions are 18 hours of therapy over 3 consecutive days and are scheduled at your convenience during weekday daytime hours.
In your own home or hotel room (for out of town clients).
If you're struggling with a breakdown in communication, feeling distant from your partner, unable to resolve ongoing conflict, feeling sexually unfulfilled, or even dealing with the devastating impact of an affair, then a 3-Day Relationship Immersion is an excellent choice for you. Changing rigid and long-standing problematic patterns with couples most often requires a more intensive approach than weekly sessions can offer. Learning and embodying the essential skills of effective communication and connection is the difference between relationships that are barely surviving and those that are authentically thriving, and that's exactly what the Relationship Immersions are designed to do.
Our Marriage Retreat Immersions are a unique and therapeutically advanced approach that offers couples one-on-one extended private psychotherapy sessions. The Immersions typically take place over three days and generally run six hours each day. They are ideal for couples who are in crisis, who are struggling with rigid destructive patterns, and/or those who want more immediate, more powerful results in their therapy.
The distinct advantage the Immersion format has over regular weekly sessions is that it does not allow the time for our old habits, which typically have way more traction than our new intentions, to re-establish in between more traditional weekly sessions. Sometimes with a serious crisis or long-standing rigid dysfunctional relationship pattern, weekly sessions just don't carry enough momentum to legitimately create the shifts that couples are needing. Relationship Immersions are also ideal for people who may be traveling from out of town, find it difficult to make it to weekly sessions, or are seeking more powerful and timely results.
Clients who begin therapy with a Couples Immersion, especially couples in crisis, progress significantly more quickly and the changes made are more sustainable than those participating in traditional hourly/weekly counselling sessions. Immersions have the powerful advantage of cutting quickly and deeply to the core issues that drive the problematic and rigid patterns that couples find so difficult to emancipate from.
One of the most popular scheduling formats is our In-Home 3-Day/6-hour Immersions that run from 9-3pm each day, which allows for the sessions to occur while the kids are in school, in the convenience of your own home. This allows for 18 hours of intensive therapy over three days which will ensure a rapid and powerful transformation of the way you think, feel, and behave in your relationship.
Like a couples workshop, we actively explore new ways and teach you the skills to increase the connection and intimacy in your relationship, significantly improve communication skills, work through infidelity, resolve conflict effectively, and work through shame, guilt, and anger in your partnership. We offer solid marriage advice to some of the most common and challenging marriage problems. These marriage retreat/immersion can take place in our offices or at your home.
During a typical three-day Immersion, couples can expect to get the same degree of benefit from a day of therapy than they would receive from a whole weekend in a couples workshop, creating dramatic and long-lasting shifts in their relationship.
Couples who typically come to a Couples or Marriage Immersion are:
Trevor developed and lead the highly successful Relationship Revolution Workshop for Couples, and along with Jenna, is now offering 3-Day Immersions for couples who want the same great benefit that so many couples have received from the marriage workshop, but in a format that offers dedicated one-on-one time tailored to meet the specific needs of the couple. We offer relationship advice to tackle some of the most difficult relationship problems.
Well, you're not alone. These are some of the most common challenges in intimate relationships and the ONLY reason they are common problems is that we simply haven't been given the right information and the right skills. Most of us were never taught how to make it in the intimate relationship arena, and if we were, most likely we were taught by people who weren't very good at it. The first critical element in winning the relationship game is knowing the key fundamentals of what keeps couples communicating and connected.
As an expert in marriage and couples therapy for the last 20 years, and having helped over a thousand couples achieve greater intimacy, Trevor has come to understand a few things very well about intimate relationships.
There is a lot of "great" information out there about how to make a relationship better but the problem is that all these "great" solutions, all too often, just don't yield the results. So couples are left frustrated and disheartened thinking things may never get better. This challenge has inspired and driven our team to find the differences that really make the difference in cultivating and sustaining passionate intimate relationships. Through his years of direct in-the-room experience with intimate partners and with the extensive training I've received from some of the most profound teachers and therapists in the field of intimate relationships, he have come to identify "7 Essentials" that make relationships work. And that when these "7 Essentials" are learned and integrated by couples, they produce significant and sustainable changes that consistently strengthen authentic communication and deepen the connection between partners. And it's these "7 Essentials" that we teach during the Marriage Counselling Immersion.
Even more exciting, and to our surprise, is that these "7 Essentials" not only reliably create positive change for couples, they are also...SIMPLE! That means everyone can learn and use these relationship keys to immediately benefit from. That means you're much closer than you think to a relationship that can thrive instead of just survive.
"I feel like I can be more open to discuss issues because I've learned some tools to deal with them. Before, I held things in to avoid conflict."
The Right Information - While there is a lot of information available to couples for how to improve their relationships, as it turns out, much of it just doesn't work. Outcome research on couples therapy tells us that there are many myths about just what makes for a healthy and happy relationship. It's important to stick with what actually works based on evidence, not just your hope or hunch.
Experiential Learning - Experiential learning embeds corrective emotional experiences into the central nervous system. Information is basically useless until it is integrated. And so by actually participating in the new information, you take the learning to a much deeper level that is much more sustainable. It's the difference between just reading the menu at the restaurant and actually eating the food.
Intimate Professional Coaching - Many real solutions are counter-intuitive, meaning they may be the last thing you think of or they might just seem outright wrong. Having a professional show and help you navigate your way into the hidden pearls of wisdom can make all the difference. Our experience has told us that the effectiveness of new information and tools is directly related to understanding the nuances - the small differences that make all the difference with the information.
Disciplined Application - "Insight without action is a daydream". New information must be practiced on an ongoing basis in order for it to be learned and integrated as a new way of thinking or behaving. Practice, practice, practice.
Based on the proven principles of effective evidenced-based change outlined above, Trevor set out to design a workshop for couples that actually works in the real life world of intimate relationships.
The Right Information - Trevor sifted through a wealth of education, training, and experience in relationship therapy and distilled down the 7 most proven, powerful and simple evidenced-based essentials of healthy, passionate relationships. He’s drawn information from some of the most contemporary clinicians in the field of intimate relationships including John Gottman - "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work", Sue Johnson - Emotionally Focused Therapy, Marshall Rosenberg - Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Harvel Hendrix - Imago Therapy, Marianne Williamson - "Enchanted Love", David Schnarch - "Passionate Marriage", "The Work" of Byron Katie, and David Deida - "Intimate Communion".
Experiential Learning - All of the information that we offer in our couples retreats is backed up by experiential exercises that will give you a deeper understanding of the theory and its application to real life relationship issues. This will integrate the ideas from the head and into the heart of your practices.
Intimate Professional Coaching - A Couples Immersion will give you the one-on-one time with either Trevor or Trevor and Jenna so that you can get the specialized attention you deserve. We'll help to coach you through the nuances of each experiential process to ensure a clear understanding and integration of the work.
Disciplined Application - A 3-Day relationship workshop immersion is only the beginning of the change process. Ongoing commitment to the learnings and practices is a must to create and sustain change. In addition to the full course training, we offer each participant a materials binder with all the information and exercises so that you can continue the learning and practice at home. Couples can also opt into "maintenance sessions" which are powerful after-support sessions that follow the 3-Day Marriage Retreat. These are aimed at supporting you in continuing with the practices you learned in the Couples Immersion to help you to work even more deeply with the "7 Essentials" and get support on any challenges you may be having. This will ensure that the gains you've made actually stick instead of you slipping back into old patterns. This will avoid the "rubberband effect" so common after a workshop high.
Our Couples Immersion Therapy Retreats can be modified to suit your personal needs in terms of length and content. Just give us a call to discuss at 604.980.2673
"I came to the Immersion quite skeptical and unsure and am leaving confident and positive that our relationship can and will improve."